Let's Chat About...Respect
Respect: The expression of high or special regard.
This week I would like to take a deep dive into the concept of respect, and the lack of.
Respect is instilled in us during childhood (or at least it should be) by our parents and other caregivers. In order to "train" human beings this action, it needs to be taught not only through words, but also by example.
Respect is very much a concept judged by the "eye of the beholder". For example, if someone behaves like you believe they should behave, that's a show of respect.
Some types of behavior that displays respect include:
Being mindful of others' feelings
Being open to different perspectives
Being aware of cultural differences
Accepting others' decisions
We have often been told to "respect our elders", but what exactly does that mean?
The bible tells us multiple times that we should treat our elders with respect. This means treating them with kindness, compassion and gratitude. Talking back or being argumentative are forms of disrespect. It is common to have different opinions, but respect should be shown both ways.
Although it is important to respect out elders, we also must respect all human beings. Granted we may feel some people don't deserve our respect, but does that really make it right?
It is easy to show respect to those we admire or think highly of based on their abilities, qualities or achievements. It is also easier to show respect to those who treat us with respect back.
"Respect and fear are two powerful emotions that can influence our behavior and relationships. While respect is the proper word to foster healthy connections, fear can often lead to negative outcomes. Respect means admiration and regard for someone’s feelings and rights, while fear is an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous. Understanding the difference between these two emotions is crucial in navigating our interactions with others."
"A common mistake is confusing fear with respect. While fear may elicit obedience or compliance, it does not necessarily command respect. Respect is earned through actions, integrity, and genuine care for others. It is a two-way street that requires mutual understanding and appreciation."
Disrespect: To act in an insulting way; an attitude of low regard
Disrespect is the opposite of respect, and it is often an easier option. Disrespect can come off the cuff while respect is a conscious, thought-out action. Like the saying goes:
"T.H.I.N.K. before you speak".
T: True (Always be honest but tell the truth in a tactful matter)
H: Helpful (Use words that help, not hurt)
I: Inspire (Chose words that make others feel good about themselves)
N: Necessary (Use proper verbiage and avoid saying too much)
K: Kind (Be positive and not hurtful)
So, in summary, please try to always be respectful and remember that actions speak louder than words.
If you have an opinion on this topic, or would like to add to it, please comment below!
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